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Picky Eating: How Nature and Nurture Shape Our Children’s Eating Habits

Food fussiness, or picky eating, is a challenge many parents face. Some children seem to reject almost every new food put in front of them, creating stress at mealtimes and making it difficult to maintain a balanced diet. But why do some kids seem so much pickier than others? Is it something parents can control, or is it simply part of who their child is?

Mother gives toddler baby fruits and berries on a plate. Surprised child takes food from mom woman hands. Kid aged one year and two months

A recent study on fussy eating, conducted with a large group of twins, provides some fascinating insights into these questions. It explored how both genetics (nature) and the environment (nurture) influence fussy eating from toddlerhood to adolescence. Here’s what the study found in simple terms:

What is Fussy Eating?

Fussy eating, often seen in toddlers and young children, involves rejecting certain foods, being selective about flavors and textures, and refusing to try new foods. It’s common, but can persist into later childhood and even adolescence. This behavior causes concern for many parents, not only because of the limited diet it results in, but also due to the stress and frustration it can cause during family meals.

Nature’s Influence on Picky Eating

The study revealed that genetics plays a significant role in fussy eating. By studying twins, researchers found that children are more likely to be picky eaters if their genetic makeup leans that way. In fact, genetics accounted for 60% of fussy eating behavior in toddlers, and this influence grew stronger as the children aged. By the time kids reached 5 years old, genetics explained up to 84% of why some children were fussier than others. This shows that being a picky eater is largely a matter of biology—something parents have little control over.

How the Environment Shapes Eating Habits

While genetics are a major factor, the environment still plays a role, especially in the early years. The study found that family and environmental factors were more influential when children were younger, particularly during toddlerhood. For instance, shared family mealtime habits, the types of foods offered, and the overall atmosphere during meals can influence a child’s eating behaviors during this stage.

Interestingly, as children grow older and become more independent, the impact of the shared environment (like family habits) decreases, while individual experiences (like a child’s unique interactions with food) become more important. This might explain why older children who are fussy eaters continue to struggle, despite parents’ best efforts to encourage healthier or more varied diets.

Is Picky Eating a Phase?

One of the most striking findings from the study is that fussy eating tends to be a stable trait over time. The researchers followed children from toddlerhood into early adolescence and found that kids who were picky at a young age often continued to be picky eaters as they grew older. However, there was a small decline in fussy eating behavior after the age of seven. Despite this decrease, most children still displayed more fussy eating behaviors in adolescence than they did as toddlers.

This means that for many children, picky eating isn’t just a phase—they may outgrow it to some degree, but it can persist for years.

What Can Parents Do?

The fact that picky eating is largely influenced by genetics might make parents feel a little helpless, but it doesn’t mean there’s nothing they can do. In the early years, when environmental influences are stronger, creating a positive mealtime environment and encouraging a variety of foods can help. Early interventions, such as repeatedly offering new foods in a non-pressured way, may also make a difference.

However, the study suggests that picky eating is a more challenging behavior to change compared to those driven mostly by environmental factors. This means parents shouldn’t blame themselves or feel like they’re failing if their child remains a picky eater despite their best efforts. Sometimes, it’s just the way a child is wired.

Fussy eating is common and largely influenced by genetics, making it a persistent trait in many children. While the environment plays a role, especially in the early years, it’s not something parents can fully control. Understanding that picky eating is often more about nature than nurture can help alleviate some of the stress and guilt that parents might feel. Creating a supportive mealtime environment and encouraging children to try new foods without pressure may help, but it’s also important to recognize that some children will naturally grow out of their fussy eating phase at their own pace.

If your child is a picky eater, it’s not your fault. This study shows that picky eating is deeply rooted in biology and remains stable throughout childhood. So, while you can take steps to introduce a variety of foods and create a positive mealtime environment, it’s important to remember that some children will simply need more time to expand their palate—and that’s okay.

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Lisa Arneill

Founder of Growing Your Baby and World Traveled Family. Canadian mom of 2 boys, photo addict, lover of bulldogs, and museumgoer. Always looking for our next vacation spot!

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